Learn from Scratch

We face situations where we are completely lost because we know nothing about them. Then 'know-how' becomes extremely desirable.

I have jumped into this new business, unaware of how deep it is. So I feel overwhelmed by the demands. I have no way to get control of the situation.

Mentors are useful. They are more experienced and know what should be tackled and how to tackle it. I am really thankful of the kind instructors. They have showed me ways short and effective.

As I develop, I become more conscious of my strengths and problems and know better about the past. To face new and tough situations, to learn to cope with them, to get experience and to conquer the old self and the difficulties are all about life value. When looking back into the innocent or ignorant days, one should feel satisfied after all the silly and discouraging trials.

Go get it.

I tell myself to learn more. After all, the accumulation and utility of knowledge and intelligence is the nature of growth.

I write as my thoughts go. Just as it is. Hope it is not too confusing.

Away for a While

I have been absent from this space for a while....because I am busy with my life or my work, or rather I am too lazy.

I have been away from my friends for a while as well and the reason is the same.

I don't say it, but I am really guilty. I have dreamed about my friends and the scences that when I meet them, I would be really ashamed. But still I keep myself away from them.

I don't know why. I just want to be along, to be absent from the outside world. I want to be myself, without any outside solid influence on me, especially from those who know me well. Maybe I want to transform, to surprise.

I have been thinking about future. I have experienced well with the old model and convinced the world I have the ability to play such and such roles. But when I am along, I want to show to myself that I can be a completely different person. So I dream, talk to myself in really private languages, watch movies, and read stories. Yes, change and newness are what I desire now.

All my friends must be missing me. Appreciated. I will be there when I am really ready.

Integrity at Risk

I am working. Very busy. The work itself is a challenge for me, at least at this moment.
I am a person believing in integrity. But when I step to the work, I have to learn to be social, or to be practically end-driven. And when the end is all, everything else would not get a second thought.
Personal efforts count, people skills count, and persistence counts. I haven't made my best because of the hesitance to exchange personal integrity with something else. How to value and keep my integrity becomes a issue ever more important for my future perspective about my career path. And I am wondering about the value of the work.
I suddenly find when writing this message that the best way to keep my integrity and make self-development is that I acquire good people skills, make ever more efforts and be persistent enough. Only in this way can I be able to make job done without bring damage to my integrity.
I remember there is a wise comment of Zhang Juzheng: To use tactics for selfless purposes and make friends not for self benefits. Follow this principle, and I will not be guilty of any blame.

Really love writing something. A great way to collect my thoughts and invite some enlightening ideas.

Lazy? -Never!

To be lazy is the best way of self-destruction.
I shall think, act and rest.
Reluctant to do any of them is bad.
To rest, in particular, is not paid attention to adequately.
I can do something continually for many hours without a break.
That is not wise.
Because it will dumb my mind and damage my health.

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Away

Haven't been here for a while as I have lived lousily during the national holiday and lived nervously in this week.
Finally I am "in the swim" but I still have a lot to learn. The business is tough and needs a lot of creativity and nerves. Hope I can adapt to it in the next week with a complete success.
I have made progress, amazingly. And I am really proud of myself. The initial step is not easy, as always. And I like to walk the hard way. Since life is short and can easily becomes sour and boring, why not take a brand new outlook and a no-way way to leave a unique trail.
I find this business exciting as well. When I get the information, the satisfaction is beyond normal level. I have seen the thrill among others as well. They find the key contact and close the deal, and they just become crazily excited and satisfied and gain more confidence and determination.
I don't know how long I will be in this business. I really want to be somebody in the term's true sense.

Alone

I am alone now. My Girl has returned to her parents', so have my friends. After all, this is a precious union time--a 7-day holiday celebrating the establishment of our People's Republic.
I chose to stay. Though I miss my mother and father badly, I feel obligated to stay here. Father and mother will forgive me.
This month passed rapidly. In hindsight, I had done nothing really worth mentioning. I read a few books, saw a few movies, dealt with a few trivialities. The days seemed to have been idled away.
I spent a quite huge chunk of the time surfing the net, which proved to be an effective way to kill time. I was constantly excited with new foundings: ebooks, videos, tutorials, and motivational bloggs. I really want to immerse myself in them. And they are surely a vast sea for me to swime and I even got drowned sometimes. When reading and surfing, I forgot the meals and sleep, let along the natural call to pee. The act would engender my health!
I still like the feeling of being devoted to the readings, a sense of belonging. But as days pass, I found I didn't afford any more to do that any more. Health complained. My sense of time was even twisted. I began to fear sunshine outside. (Sun cannot throw light into my dorm.)
Once more, I was reminded of the value of plan. I must make a plan to read those countless stuff. Otherwise, I only learn less, not more.

The bold one

This morning I met with one of my dearest friends. He has been a employer for 2.5 years though 1 year younger than me. Comparing to his life, mine has been quite simple.
We became close when we were still high-schoolers. And the time we spent together was mainly during the high school period. He drew me with his boldness which was real recklessness sometimes, and his persistence.
At first, his credit was good but later became quite unsatisfactory. The reason I years later know was because of his family. His father and mother were having a bad time and his father endured physical damage and turned to alcohol. To complement for his bad academic performance, he intended to get more chance to enter a university by practicing running. If he could be accepted as a competent runner, he would get a better chance. I saw how he ran. It was a rather moving scene. He ran without any hint of tiredness like a robot even after several miles.
But he was not lucky and finally accepted by a less known college. During that time, he changed a lot and became more determined in his boldness. He would intrude into the zoo through the wall, an action that would be severely punished if caught.
When he graduated, he got his job by walking into the company and asked for an interview, which was not adopted by most graduates as the way was a rather imprudent one and could readily incur rejections.
He is now confused about his future. He is not so close with his girlfriend. He cannot see his prospect in his current position. He is trying to find a new breakthrough.
Comparing to him, I am more prudent and focused. I told him to be careful in his actions and find his own goal. Other than that, I have noting to say. I love his boldness which has helped him through all the life struggles he had to face personaly. He was not happy with his poor family. But now he is supporting it. He didn't expect to be in his position and now he is not satisfied by the bureacracy there and seeks a change. He had been nice to girlfriend but was treated badly by his girlfriend's parents. Now he is confident to seek their apology.
Whatever his future will be, he certainly would not be willingly constrained by his status quo. His boldness is great weapon. He believes in his ability to make his life right. The miserable past and inequality he endured only fuels his determination to explore a better future.
Good luck.

The Plan

Life with a goal was desirable for some but not for me. I have lived my life with a purpose: self-realization. The purpose was not definite, which can be as bad as none if no passion and enthusiam for expooration is there in me.
In the last month, I am constantly lost in my expoloration. As to my career objective, I have taken that it is best for me to continue in a peopole business, the area aboundant with opportunities and excitements since I will be able to contact different lifestyles. My strength in this business is my communication skills and personality, i.e. I am good at dealing with people, socially and linguistically. I have made a few lifelong friendships. The friends I have are very devoted in me. They know that I am trustworthy and valuable and inspirational, with a great vision in this life. I major in language, which have facilitated my communication process.
Now, I am decided to be more invovled in social activities. And the commnication skills I have always been proud of seem not adequate. I must learn and practice more.
Books are books. What's in them are worthless if not applied in real world. I like philosophy and psycology and novels. Those three terms are interchangeable for me because they are all about human life, which is the ultimate truth of my existence.

Moonlight of the Full Moon

When the moon is full, its bright light transports a sense of peace, unity, harmony and intimacy to us. Tomorrow is a big day for the traditional Chinese. It's Zhongqiujie, the Mid-Autumn Festival, according to the lunar calendar. On this day, those who are away from home shall return home and unite with their family. When the evening arrives, the moon is bright and full like a round jady plate. The family would place a table in their garden, and fruits and dishes would be served. Mooncakes are indispensable. The scene is fantastic with the family, the dishes, the moonlight, the moon, the night sky and the amiable air. Chinese love this day because we are family-oriented. Adults work hard to raise the family and children are raised to honor the family. Ps.
Interestingly, YUEGUANG, 'moonlight' in Chinese, also means that the salary is spent in the month without any left for deposit. And 'moonlight' in English is also used to mean to work at another job, often at night, in addition to one's full-time job.

[NYTimes Article]The Key to Wedded Bliss? Money Matters

IF you ask married people why their marriage works, they are probably not going to say it’s because they found their financial soul mate.
But if they are lucky, they have. Marrying a person who shares your attitudes about money might just be the smartest financial decision you will ever make. In fact, when it comes to finances, your marriage is likely to be your most valuable asset — or your largest liability.
Marrying for love is a relatively recent phenomenon. For centuries, marriages were arranged affairs, aligning families for economic or political purposes or simply pooling the resources of those scraping by.
Today, while most of us marry for romantic reasons, marriage at its core is still a financial union. So much of what we want — or don’t want — out of life boils down to dollars and cents, whether it’s how hard we choose to work, how much we consume or how much we save. For some people, it’s working 80-hour weeks to finance a third home and country club membership; for others, it means cutting back on office hours to spend more time with the family.
“A lot of the debates people have about money are code for how we want to live our lives,” said Betsey Stevenson, assistant professor of business and public policy at the University of Pennsylvania’s Wharton School, who researches the economics of marriage and divorce. “A lot of the choices we make in how we want to live our lives involve how we spend our money.”
Making those choices as a team is one of the most important ways to preserve your marital assets, and your union, experts say. But it’s that much easier when you already share similar outlooks on money matters — or when you can, at the very least, find some middle ground.
The economies achieved by pairing up are fairly obvious. However, the costs of divorce can be financially devastating, especially when children are involved. And, not surprisingly, money manages to force a wide wedge between many couples.
“Most people think people break up over sex issues and children issues — and those are issues — but money is a huge factor in breaking up marriages,” said Susan Reach Winters, a divorce lawyer in Short Hills, N.J.
Not everyone is married to a financial twin, and that’s not necessarily a problem. There are several ways that you and your significant other can become more compatible, and ultimately more prosperous, when it comes to money.
These guidelines are compiled from the successfully married and from experts on psychology, divorce and finance:

TALK AND SHARE GOALS
Before walking down the aisle, couples should have a talk about their financial health and goals. They should ask each other tough questions: Do we want children? When? Who will care for them? Will they go to public or private school? What kind of life do we want? When will we retire?
“In my ideal plan for couples, they would have a meeting every week on their finances,” said Karen Altfest, a financial planner who runs the New York firm L. J. Altfest & Company, with her husband, Lewis. “That way, they are in sync with each other’s goals.”
Set those goals together. Jerry Ballard, 58, a former insurance executive in Houston, said that he and his wife of 36 years, Susan, also 58, managed to avoid money clashes because they share a savings philosophy. “The cardinal rule was that we don’t interrupt our savings,” he said, adding that they saved between 10 and 20 percent of their salaries each year. As long as they did that, they were less likely to disagree about spending.
Eric Gundlach, 53, of Owings Mills, Md., who has been married for 29 years, said he and his wife, Ann-Michele, “made our expectations explicit.” These included sending their son to private school and having big experiences, like traveling, in lieu of purchasing things.

RUN A HOME LIKE A BUSINESS
Make a budget and keep track of earnings, expenses and debts. And structure your business as a partnership; when it comes to making big financial decisions and setting goals, do it together. “When they are making the decisions together, they really have ownership of those decisions and any results of those decisions,” said Mary Ann Sisco, national wealth adviser at JPMorgan’s private wealth management division. “Even if you have negative results, you tend to weather the storm better.”
Share responsibilities, too. Though one partner tends to control the finances, advisers recommend rotating tasks. One person should handle investments for a certain period, while the other pays the bills; rotate and repeat.

BE SUPPORTIVE OF CAREERS
Having a supportive partner helps you professionally, which should trickle down to your mutual bottom line. “Marrying the right person helps you succeed in your career through encouragement and support, the only kind of support that comes through a supportive, intimate relationship,” said Mr. Gundlach, whose wife backed his decision to start a management consulting practice after 22 years as a human resources executive.

ENJOY, BUT WITHIN REASON
Create a cash cushion, and live a lifestyle you can sustain. Many people who were working at hedge funds that went bust or financial firms like Bear Stearns are learning these lessons now. Ms. Sisco, of JPMorgan, said that because her younger clients haven’t experienced a downturn, they assumed the money would keep pouring in.
She said she is working with one couple in their early 30s who have two young children. Right before the husband lost his job on Wall Street, the couple had ordered $35,000 drapes. They had to move to a smaller apartment in Manhattan and had to sell their vacation home.

USE A MEDIATOR
Perhaps both of you have strong yet divergent opinions about how to invest. Or maybe you are a saver while your spouse prefers to hand over a big piece of earnings to Bavarian Motor Works. An independent third party, whether a financial planner or a therapist, can help you find a middle ground.
Marc B. Schindler, a financial planner at Pivot Point Advisors in Bellaire, Tex., recently did this for a client who complained that his wife spent a thousand dollars a month on her wardrobe. Mr. Schindler then contacted the wife, who said her husband spent just as much on dinner with his buddies. So the husband asked Mr. Schindler to show how much they would save if they invested the $12,000 she spent each year. Mr. Schindler — careful to title the report “Clothing, Dinner or Invested?” — ran an analysis and found that the couple would have $1.6 million after 28 years, assuming a 9 percent rate of return. “They are going to try and compromise,” he said.

MAINTAIN SOME INDEPENDENCE
Pooling resources is important, but so is maintaining a degree of financial independence. Carve out some money for both partners to spend on things that make them happy. And when paring back, it’s essential that each person make sacrifices.
INVEST IN YOUR MARRIAGE Spend it — time and money — together. Go on dates. “What that does is enliven the marital foundation,” said Gary S. Shunk, a Chicago therapist who specializes in wealth issues. “It’s a kind of investment into the heart and soul of the relationship.”
Think of it as dollar-cost averaging your marriage, where you make small investments over time. If you wait until retirement, it could be too late.
Melanie Schnoll-Begun, a managing director in the Citigroup Family Office, worked with a couple that waited too long. The husband had amassed great wealth for the family, and his wife kept a beautiful home. But once the husband retired, “they found out that over the years they grew so far apart that they didn’t have enough in common,” she said.
“They had this magnificent wealth, and it was the building of this wealth that ultimately led to their divorce.”

Innocent Mentor

I spent the night with my Mentor. Present were some other students who were also in the Charge of my mentor. We had a great dinner, talking about the Olympics and Paralympics, Campus activities, work and translation.

We all translate. My Mentor is the most passionate. He translate to be promoted, to buy a really big house, to raise his family and status. He works hard and enthusiastically. I admire that. I sometimes hope I can be so immersed in translation without thinking about all the trivialities in life like the cost of living, the house, and the car. But I haven't been able to do that like him. He just works and everything common fellows desire comes to him natually and 'easily'.

I admire him not for his reputation, but for his passion and wisdom and knowledge. He talks with thought. He ususally admits that without embarrassment: "This is my thought right now and may be confusing to you. I myself have already been confused." He's candid, and hesitant when making such decisions. The desicion making process is just like what happened in his translating. He would think carefully about the usage of one word for one hour without coming up with a definite resolution. yeah, he is obsessed with the thinking itself.

Really innocent when considering the social facts that people are crasy chasing money and power, fun and leisure. He works. That's it. And for this reason, I deem him my best mentor.

[An article from AskMen.com] How To Make Your Name Professionally

Think of yourself as a product on a grocery store shelf: Do you want to be a popular, sought-after brand like Kraft or do you want to be a generic, lifeless brand?In many ways you’re viewed in your professional life like a brand in a grocery store. Without a shiny packaging, you’re just another cheap commodity that anyone can buy anywhere. But as a powerful and recognizable brand, you can charge more, appear more valuable, and ultimately get chosen over the generic guy next to you.Much like popular brand names don’t appear overnight, making a professional name for yourself and raking in huge checks doesn’t happen incidentally. It takes a ton of work and requires you to leverage every possible outlet to get your professional name out there. Fortunately, making your name professional doesn’t require a huge marketing budget or a big name PR firm. You can do all the hard stuff yourself.Follow our tips for how to make your name professionally and you'll be that much closer to finding success.

Be known for something

Defining your "brand" is the cornerstone of how to make your name professionally. You want to be known for something specific, such as the “web marketing guy” or the “outside sales closer.” You want to be the product that people want to buy -- design your message around that concept.Developing your brand and professional name is like developing a political platform, which means that you’ll want to say the same thing over and over in slightly different ways. Seth Godin has written nearly a dozen books on marketing that all tell you what you already know and he packages them all around the Seth Godin brand, which is “the bright marketing guy.”

Leverage the web

Long before you’ll appear on Good Morning America and start riding the national speaking circuit, your first stop is to pimp the web. An easy way to get started is with a blog that centers on your area of expertise. Since you’re looking to make your name professionally, you’ll want to be professional and update your blog at least once a week, hopefully more.Even if only a handful of your friends are reading the blog initially, the practice of updating the content around your topic every week will allow you to refine your theme and your message.Don’t limit your exposure on the web to just spouting your own brilliance. In an effort to perpetuate and build their professional names, experts often leave comments on other blogs and participate in online discussions. Your participation will serve to educate you and promote your professional name as an expert in the field.

Write a book

Before you skim over this one, let’s talk about why you would even write a book. Nothing confers authority like being the author of a book that discusses your area of expertise. Remember that the title and authority you see given to authors has nothing to do with how many people actually read their book, just the fact that they wrote one.You don’t even have to try to find a real publisher. These days you can easily publish your own paperback for the price of a couple of movie tickets on sites such as Lulu.com. All you need is something to say. Plus, while you make your name professionally as an expert in, say, marketing, you'll also make a name for yourself as a writer -- if you seek out that particular path.
Your book doesn’t have to be Atlas Shrugged, it can be a 20-page Word document that has been stretched to make a 100-page paperback (sounds like what you did on your college term papers). Simply write the book and make it available for purchase, and once it’s complete, it’s the ultimate resume item.

Write for your local

paperContrary to popular belief, you don’t need to be a seasoned journalist to pen a story for your local paper. Mind you, you’re probably not going to be published in the Wall Street Journal, but for your local paper to put you in print you’ll only need to have something intelligent to say and some basic writing skills.News editors are always looking for smart, fresh perspectives to publish. The best way to approach an editor is with a few article ideas around a central theme.A published story conveys credibility and gives you a built-in audience. It also gives you a platform to parlay into other writing opportunities for bigger papers and magazines. Getting this kind of exposure not only showcases your talents, but it helps you to make your name professionally.

Get speaking gigs

The beauty of speaking opportunities is that the producer of the event is effectively promoting you and your professional name on their dime. When the event does take place, all the attention is on you and your message. Another advantage is gained by the fact that people naturally assume that if you’re standing in front of the room with something to say, you must know what you’re talking about and, therefore, you must be the expert.The path of a professional speaker is the same as a garage band: You start off doing local gigs for nothing so you can build a name, and you gradually work up to bigger gigs that pay.

presto! you’re an expert

Going from marketing intern to marketing guru isn’t just about what you know -- it’s about how you prove that you know it. Simultaneously becoming a blogger, author, columnist, and professional speaker on any topic quickly graduates you to the rank of “resident expert” without requiring you to become a national celebrity.When building your brand, it’s not just about what you have to say, it’s about how you get people to listen. Remember: The packaging sells the product before the product ever gets tested.

http://www.askmen.com/money/career_150/173b_career.html

[Journal Review] Attitude

We cannot control life, the joy and the sorrow of it, the achievement or otherwise, but one thing we ought to be able to control and that is our attitude to it. We can, I believe, make a work of art out of our lives, a song or a beautiful melody, even though that song may clutch at the throat and bring tears to the eyes. No one can deny us that artistry of living if we are ourselves capable of it - if we are capable . It is a big if! Not to reject life but to accept it in all its fullness, and yet to go throug it finely and with light steps and refusing to allow it to besmirth us. That is a worthwhile ideal, a difficult undertaking, and the very few who may have the good fortune to approach it can never regret the choice. Success if it comes, comes with no tinsel or vulgarity; failure itself approaches with noble and tragic mien. (An Excerpt from Jawaharlal Nehru's letter written to his sister from Naini Central Prison, Sep. 12, 1934.)

【Journal Review】The Wise Sherlock Holmes

I am a Holmes fan. I have taken some notes which are very insightful. Indeed, Holmesian.

You see, but you do not oberve.

Insensibly one begins to twist facts to suit theories instead of theories to suit facts.

The interplay of ideas and the oblique uses of knowledge are often of extraordinary interest.

By what it has accomplished while still teething, one may forecast what marvels it will do in the strength of its maturity.

Nobody could infer the mastermind in the top of that ediice from the edifice itself.

Work is the best antidote to sorrow.

I cannot agree with those who rank modesty among the virtues. To the logician all things should be seen exactly as they are and to under-estimate oneself is as much a departure from truth as to exaggerate one's own powers.

Quality is not negotiable.

Virtue is its own reward.

It is a capital mistake to thoerise in advance of the facts.

No chain is stronger than its weakest link.

No rose without a thorn.

Belief is not proof.

Astonishing things can be done with the human memory if you will devote it faithfully to one particular line of business.

When you get into a dangerous place, don't turn coward. That isn't going to help matters any.

Constancy in love is a good thing; but it means nothing, and is nothing, without constancy in every kind of effort.

If you had the abilities of all the great men, past and present, you would do nothing well without sincerely meaning it, and setting about it.

[Journal Review] The IF's

Journal Review(continued):
I found a poem by Joseph Rudyard Kipling very instructive. He was mentoring his young man.

If---

If you can keep your head when all about you

Are losing theirs and blaming it on you;

If you can trust yourslef when all men doubt you,

But make allowance for their doubting too;

If you can wait and not be tired by waiting,

Or, being lied about, don't deal in lies,

Or, being hated, don't give way to hating,

And yet don't look too good, nor talk too wise.

If you can dream-and not make dreams your master;

If you can think-and not make thoughts your aim;

If you can meet with Triumph and Disaster

And treat those two imposters just the same;

If you can bear to heer the truth your've spoken

Twisted by knaves to make a trap for foos,

Or watch the things you gave your life to broken,

And stoop and build'tm up with wornout tools;

If you can make one heap of all your winnings

And risk it on oue turn of pitch-and-toss,

And lose, and start again at your beginnings

And never breathe a word about your loss;

If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew

To serve your turn long after they are gone,

And so hold on when there is nothing in you

Except the Will which says to them:"Hold on!"

If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue,

Or walk with kings-nor lose the common touch:

If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you;

If all men count with you, but none too much;

If you can fill the unforgiving minute

With sixty second's worth of distance run-

Yours is the Earth and everything that's in it,

And -which is more-you'll be a man-my son!

"Life is a tough art." After reading this poem, what else one can say? Kipling's concept of "being a man" is realy demanding. Men with those characteristics will find life rewarding in itself, whatever efforts and effects it presents.

[Journal Review]Life

Journal Review:
When handling my diaries, I found a lot of inspirational stuff collected earlier but not visited recently. Here, I copy a peom written by Mother Teresa.

Life

Life is challenge, meet it.

Life is a duty, complete it.

Life is a game, play it.

Life is costly, care for it.

Life is wealty, keep it.

Life is mystery, know it.

Life is love, enjoy it.

Life is a promise, fulfil it.

Life is sorrow, overcome it.

Life is a song, sing it.

Life is a struggle, accept it.

Life is a tragedy, overcome it.

Life is an opportunity, benefit from it.

Life is beauty, admire it.

Life is bliss, taste it.

Life is a dream, realize it.

Life is an adventure, dare it.

Life is luck, make it.

Life is too precious, do not destroy it.

Life is life, fight for it.

Mother Teresa was a great person. She showed to the world how a humble individual works incredible miracle. But Mother Teresa had her own problems. She loved life and served it well. But she was believed to be troubled spiritually.

Where is my faith? Even deep down … there is nothing but emptiness and darkness … If there be God—please forgive me. When I try to raise my thoughts to Heaven, there is such convicting emptiness that those very thoughts return like sharp knives and hurt my very soul … How painful is this unknown pain—I have no Faith. Repulsed, empty, no faith, no love, no zeal, … What do I labor for? If there be no God, there can be no soul. If there be no soul then, Jesus, You also are not true. (Mother Teresa: Come Be My Light)

Her lack of faith in God only attests to her faith in life itself. "Life is life, fight for it." Faith in God, according to those religious, has tremendous supportive power but the world is too real for one to rely on the ultimate surreal.

There was a parable saying that when one was was almost drowned in the flood he prayed and asked God to save him. A log floated by. He didn't grasped it. A boat floated by and people on it asked him to climb into it. He didn't comply. And when he finally drowned and stood before God, he accused that God hadn't come to save him. God smiled and said, "I sent a log and a boat to save you. But you didn't use them." This story is created by God's lamb not God himself/herself, I believe. The lecture delived here, possibly, is "God help those who help themselves." Really smart. But I see that the one in the flood tried to save himself by praying. He thought, innocently or stupidly, that God would personally come to save him and the critical situation was a perfect chance to test his belief in God. He was betrayed.

My point here is: "Life is life, fight for it." If you rely on others including God completely, you are dupe. When it comes death or life, it's up to you to choose. Never give up, because you are your own God. Mother Teresa didn't rely God to help the poverty-stricken. She relied on herself. She understood that only her own actions count.

D[R]EAD

"When people avoid what they dread, they lose touch with the reality they shun," said Albert Bandura, the founder of Social Cognitive Theory.
And I take that means if one dreads and shuns away is as well dead.
In my dictionary, living entails meaning. His life's meaning defines the man. Do you want to survive? Do you desire self-realization? Do you see yourself valuable? Indeed, Life is about subsistance and substance.
Though fully aware of this fact, I have not succeeded in embodying the implications. I want a happy and fulfilling life. Vague? Yeah, but leave it that way for a moment, because the definite objective has kept changing.
I have dreads or fears. A lot. What I fear most is being trashed. Sometimes, to avoid that feeling, I found myself trashing others. I also fear boredom. Then I kick my own ass to excite the nerves. No more fears need to be mentioned here. And as one familiar with psycology, I know the world is full of men of my type though not so many men have been as successful in life as me. I have tried to conceal or kill those dreads and referred to a lot of experts on this matter, but the result is not satisfactory. I am still strangled by those fears.
I want to believe that I am the greatest miracle of the nature. But the world tells me I am just common because everyone is, equally and fairly, the greatest miracle of the nature. They told me to serve people and win honor. However I had been convinced that to serve is to admit that you are inferior and should be bullied and exploited. I actuall read a history-based book, arguing that those with power would always prevail. I had a hard time to accept this. I cannot deny that. As I was raised to believe that the good will win and the evil will fall, I found the base of my philosophy on life vanish away. The world is completely dark, here and there, now and then. Damn! How ignorant I was.
It all dawned on me one day: I chose to believe the convenient lies and shunned the countering facts. With so much self-contradictory and controversial information, I just shut down my power to analyse and accepted what the authorities upheld. I was willingly deceived because I didn't have the dare to accept the facts and fight for the truth. I lived a nonexistent life.
I have to open my eyes and accept the bloody reality.
Many people have the same experience. Some continued to be blind. Some determined to be true to themselves. And still others became the warriors to help the innocent.
I have not enough power and influence now. And my dreads are still in my way. Those who have tried to deceive me and those who are at a position to trash me have a stake in doing that any longer. Because I wake now. I dread and I step up. Dreads will be the dead and I will be the conqueror.

Communicability Paradox

I have finished Gutt's disscussion about the application of Relevance Theory on translation studies.

Very interesting. Gutt promised that this theory does help translators to understand the gist of translation but it doesn't guarantee that a proper consideration of relevance theory in translating would produce the best translation. The reason:  Perfect communicability of the original text is dubious.  

The context is essential. And the translators' mastery of the original context, the original text, the target context (including the expectations of the target audience) and the target language determins the quality of the translation. No translator can be 100 percent sure about his own interpretation of the four aspects is true. So the quality of the translation produced is hard to assess.

Whether the translation is good enough  can be gauged against the relevance theory, and translation problems can be solved with the help of the relevance theory. The only problem is to judge how relevant. Relevant to what? Gutt suggests the translators should state the principles they follow in the preface of the translated version to inform the readers. In this way, the readers can know wheter the translators' relevance is the same as the readers' own expectations and contexts. 

Yet, there is still the problem of communicability. 

The addressee can neither decode nor deduce the communicator's communicative intention. The best they can do is construct an assumption on the basis of the evidence provided by the communicator's ostensive behaviour. For sucn an assumption, there may be confirmation but no proof.(Sperber and Wilson)

Gutt cites Sperper and Wilson to demonstrate that there must be  a gap between the addressee's perception of "the communicator's communicative intention" and the the communicator's real "communicative intention." In other words, the perfect communication can never be realized. Hence, in sight of the more obstacles it has to deal with, translation can never be so perfect or "original." 

I accept this. Disatisfaction abounds in translation. But you can "ever" improve. That is the beauty and appeal of translation. 

Because cognition has not been quantified scientifically. The relevance degree is unable to do that either, leaving a great challenge for the translators. Can they defend their translation solution by saying that "Considering its relevant degree, I chose this instead of that?" Yes, even though no one is convinced. After all, everyone's reality, or here everyone's context, is different， not to mention their individual perception.

Whatever. Here is a quotation Gutt used. I'd like to copy it here:

A statment may be pseudoscientific even if it is eminently 'plausible' and everybody believes in it, and it may be scientifically valuable even if it is unbelievable and nobody believes in it. (Imre Lakatos)

So far today. 

Distracted. By What? So What?

I feel sorry for my effectiveness now, because I find I have constantly been dragged away from my priorities. My time was sliced to so many pieces that the whole-day productivity becomes small even though I feel I had done millions of things during the day. Fact: My time has been mismanaged and wasted.

I have the feeling of a curious student selecting books in the National Library. Millions of millions of books are there, and my eyes are atracted to a bunch of books, not just one book. I pick up this one, have a look and move to another and another and another. They are all fantastic and worth reading. A powerful desire rises in my heart to propel me to absorb the contents of the books all at once. I walk around, only finding myself which one should be read first. Pondering to let time fly away.

This can lead to disaster. If I continue to be charmed and read no books or read a little here, a little there, then the only result I can imagine is that I end up reading no complete book and always feel hungry.

I must concentrate on one book at a time and finish it before move to another book, another shelf or another room.

I have one story in my mind now. It's about how a prisoner became a chess master.

When a man was sent to prison, he had nothing to do to kill time. So he begged the ward officer to give him something to read. What he got was a chess book. At first, he didn't want to read it because he had no interest in that stuff. Days passed and the boredom was unbearable. He picked up the book and forced himself to read on. He learned the trick and became to love it. Then he played chess with himself, of course, to kill time. Years later, when he was set free. He played chess and won all the rivals. He became the master.

So, all I can do is to refrain myself from all the distractions and focus on the priorities, complete each item from NO. 1 to No. X. And I must do things that I will do all my life. Then I can be a master.

So, it's all about practice and heart.

History shall not live on in my future life

LIVE OUT YOUR IMAGINATION, NOT YOUR HISTORY.--STEPHEN COVEY.

I have learned that the past is a powerful determinant for one's future. And I have constantly been reminded to learn from the past. Those ideas are quite right, and I firmly believe in that. Mr. Covey, yet, throws a more inspiring light on my thought with his advice. Yes, history influences us, and even shapes us. But the future, in a proper sense, must be different from the history. We must grow out of our history to justify the meaning of our continuing life. If we change little, what's the use of a longer life.
Life is change. Only change can lend life the power to go on.
Besides the need to desert one's own past track, one also needs to desert the conventional tracks used too often by others. Otherwise, the uniqueness of one's existence is obviously unsubstantiated.
I will embrace change and challenge. They are the fuel for an upping life.
Finally, Live a life as Emerson adviced, "Do not go where the path may lead, go instead where there is no path and leave a trail."

Words Today

“Taking risks and failing is one of the most critical aspects of innovation.” --Judy Estrin

To fail is a must for success. This is the information I got. I fear failure, deeply. And I worked hard to shun away from failures. Now I begin to know another way to deal with failure: To fail in order to succeed. Failures benefit if I can learn from them.
But to analyze failures and take them candidly requires heart, the right emotion and attitude. To make failures work for me, I should never lost sight on my final goal: To succeed.

Happy Birthday to My Girl

Today is my g's birthday. "Welcome to 23." (I am a little older than her.)
She is very adorable and extremely lovely. For two years, she has been with me. And I thank her for that, being an ideal partner. Though it is not a long time. In fact, I feel it is just a flash of a minute. But my memory is fully loaded with sweet moments with her.
The first ever kiss with a girl in my life. The first ever lasting feeling that love is there for me. The first ever realization that I have complete faith in another human being without any restriction. But there is also "down" moment, fortunately or unfortunately. Fighting because of misunderstanding is a heartfelt frustration. And our main problem is that why there should be so little time we can enjoy each other's company. As a matter of fact, we have spent a lot of time together. We meet each other every other evening and almost all the weekends. But the desire to have her at my side seems insatiable. We talk. We laugh. We tease. We hug. We do a whole lot of things together. Oh, we love a particular park where the scene is natural with water, flowers, trees, birds and bamboos. We usually go there, reading books or just talking leisurely. The place is quiet though many people are there. Maybe it's because the park is so large.
It seems that loving memory is everywhere. I am the happiest man in the world.
I hope she is the happiest woman ever. But I am not 100 percent sure. What I am sure is that I will help her realize her dream and make myself the man I want to be. I am still a young guy with a lot of potential. I have a lot to prove.
I love, but I haven't proved enough. I only need time.
I believe, like Mr. Farber, that love needs proof. I will provide the proof.

I am waiting for her now. She will be with me soon. We will celebrate her big day.
All for now.

JOB Miss

I talked with my good friends last night, who were my high-school classmates and are now working after graduation. Two of them expressed their intension to change their jobs. The main reason: Bored. They are complaining the simplicity and repetitiveness of their work and feel that their future would be endangered if they stay in the position.
One, a technician for power plant building, has been abroad in India for 1/2 year. He organizes the workers, supervises the processes, and provides professional suggestions. But, he is frustrated by the 'easyness' of the technical problems. He was really excited when he got the chance to go to India. But it finally proves really dull. The place is not so modern. And the workers he has to deal with are not well-schooled though very co-operative.
The other, also a technician, thinks it will ruin his future if he only deals with machine. He wants to be a manager, dealing with people. In my opinion, he would make a good manager because he carries a manner of mildness and courage and has the enterprising spirit. But the fact is he doesn't have the time to horn his managerial skills. In that position, he is placed among machines.
The ideal counters with the real.
They tell me I have to find out my true interest and persist in that direction, or I will walk a much longer way to get what I really want. I will examine my strength and adversaries and build on my strong areas.
They will find another job in one year. Hope they find a dream one.
Any way, I will find mine.

News Channel

The New York Times is my favorate news provider. I like their style, tense and complete, original and formal, demonstrating their professional feature.
When reading their reports, you see the whole picture and the author's opinion as well. Really helpful for your own judgement of the scenes out there. Their story really connects with the readers.
The fame of New York Times is based on solid results and action. In history, they went through difficult times with persistence, hardwork and vision, and finaly won the due recognition.
This morning, I spent three hours reading their news stories. Science, politics, book reviews, bloggs. I really love their in-depth reports and their practical opinions.
What's wrong with most news channels? The lack of underlying seriousness and professionalism, at least partly.

Field Switch

I will go to win in a much bigger arena now as the big day approaches.

I will use the next year to its full and find my dream job.

I will explore my potential and know myself better.

I will be "my real self."